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Both of my best friends did them at their weddings recently (And have also been done at pretty much every wedding I've ever been to). I see nothing wrong with them. If you don't want to give them money, just don't do it.
The ones I've seen also had both the bride and groom doing it. I just gave a buck each time (cause I'm a poor 20-something), but I saw the grandparents and older guests giving as much as $50.
I think people worry too much about it. It's just fun.
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