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Originally posted by James
I disagree. I don't subscribe to the whole theory that girls can't get go out and get some but I know a lot of guys that do judge girls by the amount of their partners.
I remember a friend of mine that dated a girl for like 3 years and told me point blank that he would never marry her because she slept with him on the first date.
I know some of you ladies are going to howl that its unfair or that none of the guys YOU know believe that (men lie you know), but its actually a common thing among males. ITs not fair but its true.
My advice to women that are promiscious, if he is stupid enough to ask, and I don't ask personally (it being none of my business), lie.
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I'm saying that these guys judge the women because the guys are insecure. I don't doubt that this kind of judgment happens ALL THE TIME.
I'll tell a guy about my past if I feel like it, and if he has less respect for me as a result, I don't want to be with him, period. I'm not going to lie about it to someone with whom I'm either in a relationship or hope to be. That's stupid.