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Although not shy in college, I joined a group after graduation that I found very intimidating. I spent my first year in the group taking a lot of photos - it gave me an excuse to talk to people I didn't know well, but also something to "hide" behind until I got more comfortable.
Does you chapter take photos during rush? Also, serving food can work the same way. Or being the door person
From everything I've read, most fears can best be overcome by simply exposing yourself to increasingly frightening situations. Gradual exposure via something like greeting at the door, being in charge of nametags, serving food or punch, taking photos might be just the ticket. Not hiding in the kitchen, but maybe not the full immersion in the whirl of rush right off the bat.
An increasing comfort in social situation will really serve you well when you get out into the "real" world and are forced to go to presentations, conventions, meetings, etc.
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