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Originally posted by DST_philoso4
I took that solely as we had/have a love interest of various organizations, but we, of course, always put Delta first. I am an Omega's Sweetheart--not aux., but actually-- I would never put Omega Psi Phi before Delta Sigma Theta. I feel as though it is a true conflict of interest, and as I stated before, it will never knowingly persist at my campus. Not ever will I accept someone who was/is a groupie. Many have tried, ALL have failed at Mighty TAU, we're not called mighty for nothing.
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Soror, you opinion on this is a valid one. It is just not a national rule. Like many things, there are campus and regional variations. I can appreciate that on your campus things do not work that way, on others they do. I know many, MANY older Sorors (And I mean 15, 20, 25+ years in Delta) who were members of auxiliaries. I am sure you would not see them as any less a Soror. That should extend to more recently initiated Sorors who were in auxiliaries. As long as se puts DST first, and is a woman of strong character (not an example of the stereotype you are describing) I would expect all Sorors to embrace her just the same.
Now as McCoyRed said, I do not understand continuing to wear auxiliary para after becoming a Delta. To me that is NOT putting Delta first. I see those things as part of a former life that should be resigned to nostalgia. Like everything else, that is just my opinion.
And I think I mentioned it in an old post in this thread but I was a Kappa Sweetheart back in the day. They neve disrespected me or degraded me becauseI would not have stood for htat. They knew that and that's why they want me around. They were some of my closest male friends and still are.