i too am a bit biased... BUT i'm a founding sister of my chapter soo i am biased on that regard as well b/c i know how amazing that is! I would just go to both the DZ event and the event of the sorority colonizing.... the women in the chapter are goingto be the selling point above all, and how are you going to know which one is best for you if you don't give both an equal shot! have lots of fun ~ and keep us updated