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C'mon... you really don't have to be tease her. I don't think she understands. You need to do some research. You need to learn what greek life is really about before making the decision to join a sorority. Don't join to try and be popular, don't join to get invited to parties, don't join to date fraternity guys. Join because you want friends you'll have for the rest of your life, join to be a part of years of tradition and ritual, join to serve your community, join to fall in love... not with a guy, but with an organization that will change your life. Remember dear, guys will come and go, the decision to join a soroity is something that stays with you for your entire life. If you still think greek life is right fot you, I suggest you go through recruitment or go to COR's (COB's... whatever) one more time and this time tell the sorority women you meet that you didn't know what it was all about before, ask them questions about what greek life is all about and about the history and ideals of their praticular organization. Most of them aren't being nice just because they have to, they are all people too, most of them really are being nice and not putting up a front. Just think, they were in your shoes once and they know what it feels like. Hope I helped and good luck!
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