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Originally posted by starshinelady
I really want to rush because I want to date a frat guy and the only way to do that is to be in a sorority. I rushed last year and didn't get a bid so I went to COB and guess what...NoThInG! There are rush parties at my school now and I am not even sure if I want to join, I just want to go to the parties and have them all girls be nice to me because I know they have to, well at least the ones who were mean to me but I do want to join or I was going to start my own. So this time what should I do? How can I get them to like me. I have decent grades (2.8) and I played intermurals last year. I also hang out at a few of the frat houses so some of the greeks may no me or maybe not. I really want to wear letters so do I have a shot?
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OK now here's my serious answer, if you are serious.
Have you ever had anyone want to be friends with you because of a guy you knew, or the car you drove, or the house you lived in? Did you like it very much? If this hasn't ever happened, would you want to be friends with a person who does this?
If the only reason you want to be in a sorority is to date a fraternity (it's fraternity not frat by the way - frat is a very offensive word to many people) member, and not to have any kind of relationship with the sisters or give anything to the sorority, you won't be receiving a bid any time soon.