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Maybe a police check and credit check sounds extreme - but think about it, in the first stages of a relationship, you are already doing something of a background check on a person. If you have friends in common you pump them for as much information as you can about this new person in your life and you don't necessarily divulge these conversations to the person. Even in the questions/conversation you have directly with the person, you are checking out their background, family, and if you ask the right questions you can find the real deal about their finances/credit-not just the story the window dressing shows. I think it pays to be as safe as you can espcially if you are in a new or unfamiliar city and if that means getting some info from a PI or other methods I say go for it!!
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