OK, this gets edited for content, but I want to share anyhoo...
My ex was pledging Sigma Nu, and he introduced me to one of the older guys in the fraternity (who is now my hunny). I didn't think much of Hunny at first, but as the semester went on, I began to notice how cute/funny/awesome he was-but what to do, since I was already dating someone..well, Hunny became my ex's Big, and finally I just couldn't stand it anymore, and at their formal (after many many beverages) I told him how I felt. Turns out, he felt the same, and about one month later we started dating..and now 3 1/2 years later we are still together..about to move in together..we've picked out a ring..oh, that boy is just the best...