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My boyfriend and i have since resolved some of the issues. After getting really upset about all this for like the 3rd time, his mom had stopped by to drop off some holloween cookies, and found me crying about it while he was out walking the dog.
after some prying i finally told her what was going on and why i was so upset. and she gave me a bit of insight about the former relationship between "kim" and "paul". and she pointed out that she had never seen her son so committed and so happy and that he isn't hearing the issue, he is just seeing it as "maggie is threatened by kim and how he isn't doing his job in keeping me secure in our relationship so he lashes out about it."....ok, that i will kinda agree with.
so when he came in, she sat the two of us down and talked about it, insted of my crying and him getting all pissy with me and we sorted it out a little bit. her advice to him was to tell "kim" that he has moved on and she is welcome to be his friend, but needs to treat me and our relationship with respect, and if she doesn't then their friendship needs to end.
And i need to remain keeping my cool and class to a point. If she crosses the line, then tell her flat out.
so what do you all think?
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