[KillarneyRose]

Maggie,
Have you ever read Dear Abby? Sometimes she tells the person writing her with a problem to cut out the column the letter appeared in and show it to the person they're writing about. Maybe you could try that with your boyfriend? Maybe print out this thread and let him read it. He might be able to see some aspects of your situation that for whatever reason he is missing when you try to talk to him about it. Maybe when he sees how detrimental his ex girlfriend's sniveling and bitching is to your relationship, a light bulb will go on over his head and he'll have a talk with her.