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When the members of the fraternity start giving you excuses like:
"Our headquarters only allows us a certain number of new members each semester. Yes, I know 19 is an unusual cut off point, but it comes from a very complicated formula that I'm not very good at explaining. I'm a political science major."
OR
"It's cause you didnt pre-register for rush with the chapter. Pre-registration is manditory with our organization. If you dont pre-register and rush, we coudl get in a lot of trouble just for having you out here during rush."
OR
"Our HQ mandates an incredibly detailed vetting process. We had a few questions about some things that came up on your application and we'd like to schedule a time in the next couple of weeks to go over it with you. Our membership chair will be in contact with you to see when you can meet."
OR
"The alums never got to meet you and they are real sticklers for that kinda stuff. They are a huge voting bloc in the chapter and its impossible to break."
Which is generally guy speak for "youre a tool and there was no way in hell you were going to get a bid, but we also dont even want you hanging around us because you'll scare off the girls."
If its a really wierd elaborate excuse about some 'process' that you werent even aware of, it didnt exist and we just dont want to be assholes and tell you directly it just wouldnt take.
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