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Originally posted by fighton10
Thanks for all you advice, the responses haven't been the most encouraging, but they have been one's I needed to hear nonetheless. I would like to say that this week I am going to take a break from "wishing" to be in ABC, DEF and GHI sorority. I'm in the one that I'm in and I am going to make the best of this week, trying to get to know the sisters and being an active pledge in the house. If at the end of the week if I still feel like I don't belong or more confused (which I think at this point is impossible) then I will think about depledging some more. I am going to pledge until initiation knowing that if I depledge I most likely will never have another opportunity to be greek. At this point I am a little disheartened because of the tiers at USC and the lack of social opportunities with certain fraternities that result from being in the house I'm in, but honestly I have come to terms with the fact that the social opportunities I will expierience will be far more that if I were a GDI and always wishing I were greek. Thank you everyone, hopefully the weeks ahead will be easier and I will find my niche at XYZ. It's just hard for me to stop thinking what if...
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I have read these post with a lot of interest and some of it is amazing and some of it is Truely Just F**KING Amazing
Remember, that You and The GLO You Joined have to get to know each other from the initional meeting and bidding process.
Remember, the same thing could have happened at any GLO. Top Tier or not.
When you get to know YOUR fellow members, it is a lot easier
Being The Top doesnt mean they are the best. Just look like it.
If you have been around on the boards as long as many of us have, you will find that even thought some did not get what they thought "Was The Best", it turned out that it was a wonderful melding of people and are some of the hardest workers on GC and Their GLOs.
There are many other parts of Being in a Female GLO than meeting the GUYS! What you are envolved in, working with Your Members with Charitys, Homecoming, or other functions.
With The Local, I never even thought about LXA as they were so new, 1909. I was turned down by the Biggies! But, guess what, I am still highly envolved after 40 years. I am very very glad that I am a Brother of LXA.
There is so much more to hang your hat on even after Graduation.
If it doesnt fit after giving them a fair chance, get out.