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I'm not sure what it's like at USC, but from my experience, and from the experiences of my girlfriends on other big campuses....
By the time you are a junior or a senior people really stop caring about what your specific letters are. If someone wants to take you to a date party and they really like you, they aren't going to be deterred by what your letters are. Most guys can look past your letters if they are genuinely attracted to you.
Maybe your sorority won't get a chance to have a party with xyz fraternity, but do you really want to if they are they have bad attitudes and are so disrespectful to others? I'd rather meet guys outside of the greek system, than meet a guy from the "hot fraternity" who is an a-hole to an entire group of women.
Trust me, long after you've graduated, you probably won't remember much about a mixer or a date party, you will remember the road trips, the vacations, the retreats, the 21st birthdays, and graduation.
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