[valkyrie]

Is it that easy to change things? If you're in the "fat house" or the "ugly house" or whatever stupid ass thing they call you, or your house is in some way considered lower tier or whatever, how exactly does somebody go about changing that? No matter how much a new member wants things to change, how is she going to make that happen? Are members of XYZ fraternity suddenly going to want to mix with a certain sorority just because somebody asked? It's all well and good to tell someone to change things or to make a difference, but how is she supposed to do that? Let's see some real advice here, not just generalities like "make a change" -- that doesn't mean anything. Tell her HOW.