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Originally posted by sugar and spice
USC has been described to me as a campus where even the girls in the "bottom-tier" sororities are beautiful, but where campus reputation means a lot. I can't imagine it's easy to be in a sorority where you and your sisters are still prettier than many of the girls in the "hot" sororities on other campuses, yet there are fraternities that won't mix with you because you're "ugly." It's easy enough, as an alum, to say this doesn't matter -- but when you're a collegiate and you're thrown into the middle of it, it can be hard.
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The thing is, all we have is her perception of the situation to go on. She could be in a sorority that's considered "middle tier" or "upper middle tier" but she's unhappy because she's not in the one considered the top of the top.
I haven't seen anything where she says that being in this sorority is adversely effecting her health or self esteem - quite the opposite - I think she thinks she's too good for this sorority.