[shadokat]

If you're uncomfortable, and quite frankly, who wouldn't be as a new member in a fraternity you describe, then you should do what you feel is necessary to rectify your situatuion, whether it be dropping out and joining a different house, or maybe even addressing the problem within the fraternity. Approach #2 would take way more time, but if you really think it's worth it, then I would say go for it. If not, there's nothing terribly wrong with dropping and joining somewhere else.