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if this pnm made it all the way to prefs with her dream sorority, but was not offered a bid, then she might stand a chance with them next year. for instance, dream sorority might have extended 52 bids, and all were accepted and our pnm was #53 on the bid list. if she was dropped fairly early in the recruitment process, the chances of being extended a bid from the dream group next year would be slimmer.
however, i would also like to join the majority who are urging you to give your present sorority a little more time. talk to the officer in charge of educating the new members, talk to the president, or your big sister, or a pledge sister-anyone in the sorority that you feel close to OR you feel would listen to you and would care. don't tell them that you really wish you had been offered a bid by your dream sorority, but do tell them about you feelings of not being connected.
i will tell you this: you should make a concerted effort to go over to the house, eat your meals there,be outgoing, meet your pledge sisters and get to know them, as well as the initiated members. turn yourself into the rusher-ask the girls questions, start a conversation with them and really listen. don't just show up, sit in a corner and expect them to run up to you and keep you entertained. if,after all that effort you still do not feel a connection, then have one more talk with the pledge trainer or president, and if things can't be worked out, then depledge.
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