[33girl]

If she would have come on here saying "I hate sorority life, I hate all the meetings and time commitments, I can't stand being around so many girls" I don't think anyone on here would have a problem with her wanting to depledge, cause sorority life in general is probably just not for her. I don't think that would be a lack of commitment issue.

But she hasn't said that. She has said she wants out so she can go after her "dream" sorority - which 1) may not bid her and 2) as Dani pointed out, she may not have any better of a time in than this one.

If this was another campus I might say go for it, what the heck, but at this one, she's pretty much shooting herself in the foot.