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Part 4. Change your minsdset.
A lot of times so called nice" guys are just over socialized. They tend to be less agressive with girls because they were taught that girls were not sex objects. That in fact its insulting to think of them that way. That when a girl is paying alot of attention to you she probably just wants to be friends.
Some of that maybe true. But it can be confusing. Many guys get so caught up with that they might not notice if a girl likes him until he is hit over the head with it, because he has been taught not to think that way.
So the goal of the nice guy is to view all females as potential love interests. Then you start eliminating them if you are not attracted to them, or they just don't like you.
But the advantage is that you will always be flirty and charming which gives the greatest possible response from the greatest number of women.
The name of the game is to maximize both your chances of being charming and appealing to any one woman you are talking to, and also to be generically charming and appealing to women in general.
That should maximize your chances of both meeting the most amount of women and having the most amount respond to you.
So you want to take your new found confidence from strippers and flirting skills and be amusingly flirting with all the women you meet.
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