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Originally posted by sugar and spice
If you don't feel comfortable with where you ended up, I agree that what you really need to be asking yourself is whether you would rather be in no sorority as opposed to the one you're in. If you'd rather not be in one at all, then I say there's no harm in dropping and re-rushing -- knowing, of course, that your chances are about 1 in 100 of getting into your first choice at USC (possibly less likely considering which sorority your first choice was). If you would rather be in a sorority than in none, you probably should stay where you're at, because your chances aren't good.
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Smart answer!
Also - something to keep in mind -
yes, you were dropped by sorority ABC. Furthermore, you pledged sorority XYZ. I would say that there is a good chance pledging XYZ would probably also hurt your chances with ABC.
I think you should stick it out. Talk to your new member educator.. let her know your concerns. Maybe the chapter needs to have more interaction between new members and initiates, or more activities for the new members in general. This may help you get to know your sisters better and make you feel more at home.