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Originally posted by valkyrie
LOL some of you are kind of harsh.
Isn't it entirely possible that someone could end up in a group that is just not right for her and that no matter how hard she might try, she's just never going to relate to almost all of her sisters?
I mean, I still don't think she's going to get a bid anywhere else so the issue here is limited to sticking it out or quitting, in my opinion. However, I really don't see the point of someone staying where she's not happy. It doesn't matter if all the starving kids in Ethiopia would love to trade places with her -- if you don't relate, you don't relate -- and personally, I don't think it's worth it to stick with it if you're not getting what you want out of the experience.
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Sticking my non-NPC nose in...
I think it depends on why she isn't happy. If because she's truly not happy, then quit. If she's not happy because she's always thinking about the other group, then she needs to stop. If she's not happy because of gossip then she needs to ignore it or work to make her group better.
I realize this all takes a certain amount of self-awarness that many college freshman may or may not possess. I would think that she needs to take a good long walk or drive by herself and think about what she wants. Is it reputation? Is it prestige? Is it family approval? Is it activities? Those needs may or may not be met in her current group--but only she knows what those needs are.