Please please please--heed the advice given by everyone here and walk away.
I've been in this situation too--and believe me, it will just escalte from there--and no matter how strong you are, if you keep being subjected to abuse it will break you and turn you into someone you don't even recognize--I speak from experience, and the road back to your true self is a long and hard fought one.
You are in a great place--college, greek life-- to meet all kinds of guys. Please find one, or ones, that are respectful and deserving of you and leave this jerk behind.
There is NO good excuse for his behavior and PLEASE trust me, it WILL get worse if you stay with him. PM me and I w ill share more with you--but I've been there and it started in much the same way and the things I endured, I would wish on no one. Get Out Now!
Amy
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