DROP HIM IMMEDIATELY!!!!!!
I see so much of myself in you. I have been in your situation. I have had guys treat me that way and then I feel like it is all my fault. You DO NOT deserve to be treated that way. He obviously has serious problems that you can't help him fix. Please do not call him and say you are sorry. You did nothing wrong. Please do not take him back because chances are he will apologize profusely and sweet talk you. But then the cycle will continue. He will go back to treating you like crap and making you feel like everything was your fault. Like greeklawgirl said...this is how domestic violence starts. It's all one big ugly cycle. I should know...I grew up witnessing that cycle. Please talk to your friends or someone you trust. As I said before you do not deserve this and you need to stay as far away from that guy as possible. Get out and do things with your sisters or become involved around campus if you're having trouble keeping your thoughts off of him. If you ever need to talk please feel free to PM me.
Allison
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