I say stick with it. You have only been pledging for 3 weeks. Alot can change in the time you are in the chapter. You may really bond during the rest of your new member period. But I wouldn't use your new memeber period as an indication of what the rest of your time there will be like. Things may feel differently when you get initiated.
You first choice cut you once. They're most likely going to do it again. Especially because you depledged another sorority. Just a note, recommendations DO NOT GUARANTEE a bid.
My advice ( though it may seem harsh):
Stop focusing on the chapter you're NOT in and focus on the one you ARE in. Most girls who are in your situation feel that way because they can't let go, which is really what you should do.
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 09-13-2005 at 01:01 PM.
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