pledgetrainer2,
You may be telling the truth about your organization but not everyone eles's.
Of course you want to choose girls who are going to fit in with you and add to your sorority but being older and overweight has nothing to do with a persons personality and they shouldn't be judged on it.
No, my group doesn't have all of the hot girls. We have all different kinds of girls. We don't judge on looks. Our president is over weight, but if it doesn't bother her then it doesn't bother us. We give bids out to girls who seem genuinely interested and who we feel will make a difference.
Everybody needs to stop being so superficial and look for the real qualities in people.
Have a nice day