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depledging
I, like another member on the forum, was dropped by my first choice sorority during formal fall recruitment this year. I ended up trying to have an open mind and signed a bid for another sorority. Now I have been pledging for about 3 weeks and I just feel like I don't fit in with the girls in this particular sorority. I love the activities and MND, but I can not see myself being actively involved with the sorority because I don't find myself having much in common with many of the girls that are my sisters. I am seriously considering depledging and trying for my first choice sorority next fall.
I understand that getting a bid from this sorority after they dropped me is not likely, but I have extended family members and friends that are alumni and would write me letters of recommendations. Would that actually help if I rush again next year get into my first choice? How much do LOR actually matter in fall rush?
What do you think the possibliltiy of getting a bid from another sorority would be especially my first choice?
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