|
Part 3. Practice dating.
Its funny, we seem to practice everything. Everything. Sports, we even take prep courses for Tests etc.
The one thing we don't practice for is human relationships. Especially the most important human relationships, the romantic ones.
So here is how nice guys should practice for it.
Date girls that you are not that interested in.
I know a lot of guys that have done it.
Date girls you don't feel that attracted to. Practice talking to them. PRactice asking them out. Practice being charming. Practice showing them a good time.
Who knows, you might really start to like them.
It also helps if you practice with more than one girl at the same time.
There used to be a word for this . . it was called dating. Or social dating. Where you went out with girls socially without the intention of getting serious.
The advantage is that you get a wider range of experience with more girls, you learn to be better at showing girls a fun time, and also you learn the difference between what different girls like or don't like.
|