despite more horribleness at dating and everyone telling me we should've at least kissed, I have managed to secure a 2nd date with the guy for tonight.
Now, here's hoping for some tongue action tonight
And i do think the kiss or not to kiss depends on the person. i've done a lot more than kiss on a first date, and obviously i've done nothing on a first date - so it all depends on the guy, the mood, the current needs.