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Originally posted by xo_kathy
Just wanted to point out what you said about Patty a while back. You really seemed to like tham a lot. I would think hard about this, because, in my opinion, Phoebe didn't invite you to pref for a reason. And Patty did invite you because they think you have potential to be a sister. If Patty gives you a bid, would you really want to turn down people who accept you and want you there (and who you really enjoyed being with all week) to take your chances with COB with a group that cut you?
One of my best friends in my chapter had Chi O as her second choice on her bid card. Her first choice did not extend her a bid. After a couple weeks of really getting to know the girls and her pledge sisters, she knew she was meant to be with us.
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We'll said. I second this. It sounds like Patty wants you and remember that a bird in hand is worth two in the bush. If it were me, I'd go with Patty, never look back, and do my best to enjoy and contribute to membership in Patty.
Best wishes!