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Originally posted by DiamondK


So I'm kind of confused as of what is expected from a rushee during pref. night. I know it is really emotional for the girls, but I don't know exactly what I'm supposed to do or say to make the best impression...your advice would be the GREATEST! I'll update you guys tomorrow...hopefully with good news!

Hi there! Pref night is a very special night. Every group that has invited you to pref basically thinks you'd make a good sister. Girls will basically be trying to make you see that you would be good for XYZ. Really listen to what the girl who is rushing you is saying because she really wants you to be a part of her chapter. She'll most likely share some favorite experiences and touching memories. Just GO with the flow of conversation.


Some general pref advice (especially if you're torn between chapters):

Really PAY ATTENTION to the pref ceremonies at each chapter. Do the words strike a chord with you? Can you see yourself participating in the SAME ceremony next year with tears in your eyes b/c you mean every word? Think about next years rush. Can you see yourself rushing PNMs alongside these women?

Ask yourself: Could I see myself coming here at 3 am when my car has broken down and my boyfriend just broke up with me and I'm in sweats and crying hysterically? Crazy scenario but you want the chapter that you can see being there for you in time of need like that.