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Whoops, a little late with the philanthropy, sorry!
For pref night... this is the night for you to get a glimpse of what it would like to be in that sorority. Chances are you will wind up in one or two deeper conversations- not playing social butterfly like the other parties. The women will want to show you why they chose their sorority and what it means to them, and therefore what it could mean to you. On your part, you need to relax a little and just take it all in! Find out why they joined. Find out why they stayed. Find out their favorite aspects, as well as maybe some things they find difficult. Tell them more about yourself and if you're comfortable, why you are interested in their group & Greek life. This is the time you picture yourself in that group and try to figure out what it'd be like! Enjoy yourself- it's a very different mood than the other parties, more on the serious side.
That's how we did it at my school, anyway. It very well could be different there, who knows? But in any case, this will be your last chance to talk to the women and get a feel for the groups before signing your pref card. Have fun with it, and good luck!
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