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lifesaver-I'm shaking my head in disbelief that you would even associate with a girl like that. Honey, she is pure trash. (Gawd I hope you don't end up with her after I said that or you will hate me for expressing it)
Just a few thoughts-
You SOUND like you are ready for a relationship, want to have closeness to someone special. Often, it turns out you KNOW in your heart you haven't found the right one so you focus on something unattainable or out of sync with your real desires so you are safe FROM commitment till the real thing comes along.
Where does Nate stand in all this? Is he a skunk and using both these girls? That can lead to a circle of unrequited love.
James is right BLOCK HER. It sounds like you are stuck in a pattern and that's hard to break unless you take active measures.
(Does she REALLY talk that way? Is that the kind of women you would be proud to accompany you throughout your LIFE?)
I have known many women who could get a man to do ANYTHING for her. I never had that "gift" and never understood how or why-it just was. In all cases I can recall, it ended badly. The girl was never satisfied and after using her "friends" up, moved on.
Stay firm in your resolve. PLEASE don't let her "charms" (!?!) lure you back. Your level of intelligence, polish and may I assume aspirations begs for a woman who you can trust and share a FUTURE with, not just a few "magic moments" that are followed by pain. You are better than that.
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