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Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
To me it says a lot if a member doesn't turn in a legacy intro form for a PNM. I would wonder if the member doesn't want to claim the woman as a legacy.
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See, I've been thinking about that as I've read through this thread. When I rushed, I read on the application that recs were
not necessary, so I took that to mean that I shouldn't get any. There were alums of several sororities who volunteered to write recs for me, but I told them not to because the school discouraged them (that's how I took that statement on the application--dumb!

). Anyway, one of them was my sister...she was going to write me a rec since I was a legacy through her. I've always sort of wondered if that chapter thought I must've been undesirable or something because my own sister didn't even write me a rec!