[KSUViolet06]

Originally posted by Sistermadly

And as someone pointed out earlier, you once called NPC sororities "white" sororities - do you still think of them that way? If you do, you need to ask yourself some serious questions about whether that is going to be an issue for you. If you're still thinking of it as a "white" sorority, can you still look those women in the eye and call them your sister?

Seriously, if you can't get past the whole NPC sorority=white sorority stereotype, then there's no real point in trying to join because you could never think of these women as "sisters". You'd never get past the point of them being "white women."

OK, so why do you want to join? For you to ever think about AI, it'd have to be about alot more than just "well I got cut 3 times in college". Is it about being a sister and having a sincere love for the organization you join and wanting to be active in their causes, OR has it become about "getting in" at this point just to say, I got in?

And for the record, I'm certainly not trying to antagonize you, I just really want you to honestly think about why you want to join.