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Originally posted by ShellyWilliams2
While we're on the subject of NPHC interest meetings. I attended the NPHC informational during the fall of last year, and had a chance to mingle with the members of the organization that I am interested in. Since then I have attended almost all of that organizations events and community service oppurtunities. NPHC is hosting another informational in about a weeks time. My question is would the organization want to see me at the informational again, or should I just continue to attend events and community service oppurtunties. The organization has an event planned before the NPHC informational, that I was invited to by one of the members, so they know of my interest.
Any advice or comments from a BGLO member is appreciated.
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This is kinda tricky.
>>>I would go and mingle, making sure to meet all the sorors of the org of my interest if I haven't met them already. If you've been going to their events for a year then I'm hoping you know all of the chapter members already or know all their names. Use this time to talk to them a little more like finding out their majors and classes for the semester. Ask them questions not related to the sorority you may find that you have a lot in common which is always a plus.
>>>I wouldn't go because it's always important to be discrete it's very very likely that if you've been going to their events for a year they've noticed and getting a personal invite to an event is a good sign. I never wanted anyone but sorors to know that I was interested and people are always noticing who is talking to who. Oh she's an interest for this org and stuff like that. So talking to them a lot at this informational is a clear sign. It's also likely that there won't be any information that was not given last year. To be sure I would ask them if I should come like "is the informational going to be similar to last years will you be giving new information? I would like to come but I also have a some work to do" which isn't a lie we always have work to do.
I figure you dont want them to think you are interested in another org which I doubt the will. Good luck!