So it had to happen again, but this time I put my foot down. All ya'll were right. She is using me as her surrogate boyfriend. I love her, but I need to establish some boundaries.
So Beth has been flirting with one of my closest brothers, Nathan. they kissed a few times, but nothing sreious. Last Tuesday I ask Beth whats up with her and Nate. She tells me "nothing, I dont see anything coming of it. I've already moved on." So I leave it at that. Well, last friday, Amy (a good friend of mine and the chapter presidents real life little sister, age 20) is hanging out with all of us and asks me if Nate is involved with Beth. I tell her no, which is what Beth told me. So they kiss later that evening. Nothing more, then Saturday night we all go out and Beth asks me if they had kissed. I never lie to Beth, but I should have. i told her, I dont know but probably. She hit the roof. Her whole domeanor changed. She turned into a complete bitch, and startch bitching and expecting me to be her emotional rescurer. She tells me, "thats wrong of Amy to do that." and "So what if I wasnt interested, thats besides the point." And "You had no rite to tell Amy my business." I finally put my foot down and told her "listen, be mad at yourself, not me. If you couldnt deal with your emotions properly, and admitt that you liked him, you are the one that created this situation. DONT turn into a complete chick on me now. If you are gonna be bitchy all night and pout, you can go home now. I am out to have fun and am not gonna spend my night carressing your ego and solving your problems."
So she pouts the rest of the night, I ignore her till we get back to my place at 3am and I hear her in the shower crying. I dont need her drama. She had since lost her keys so she had to have a friend pick her up. I also find out she confronted Amy with, "Amy, Dont be that girl. You know the one who kisses other girls' guys." Amy was like, "Are ya'll together?" and Beth said "Thats not the point." they went through this drill 5 times. I think it was really messed up foir Beth to have confronted her at the party like that. I know Beth is going through a rough time, but there is a point where I have to fish or cut bait, and i have chosen to cut bait. I am tired of her drama. I love her and always will, but hanging out with Amy in the recent I have been a lot happier, and had a lot of fun. I think beth feels her terretory has been usurped. But she drove me away. Maybe we just need some time apart. I did get the following email from her the next day (its long and boring and has Estrogen written all over it):
"I hated hated hated Saturday night! I know that I said that the Nate thing with h-i-s-t-o-r-y that was and is how I feel-- I did not like the kid at some higher obscure level do not get me wrong, So apparently I was born with or aquired some kind of curse as to do with men... but what the f**k he hooks up with this girl who I thought was cool on my freakin turf (your apartment).... no, mamma is not even close to down with that... hook up with who you please.... I do not give a f**k but not on my turf, ever... I just need to get a new scene and stop hanging out with the party crowd!"
Ya'll wanna know what part I heard? "I hated saturday night." After that it was Charlie Browns teacher. "Wah, wah wah wah wah." Point is I am moving on to healthier relationships. Just thought I'd share.
