One of my favorite ADPi sisters once told me:
"Guys are like lipstick, they come in different shades. Some are expensive and some are cheap. Sometimes you choose one that looks good in the tube, but when you try it on, it's all wrong for you."
In other words, don't try forcing a lipstick to work with you.. sometimes you have to find one that works, and when it does, you'll know it
