I only have the Sept 03 Torch, so someone with a more recent September would be of more assistance...
The chapters in Wilmington:
Iota Nu (ROJ chapter)
Xi Beta Iota (Exemplar chapter)
Iota Master (Master chapter)
Xi Master (Master chapter)
I dont know your age, but seeing that you're probobly not up in your 50's or above... Id say that Iota Nu or Xi Beta Iota are more up your alley.
Email
membership@betasigmaphi.org and see if they can give you contact info for the City Council, if they have one, or info on Iota Nu and Xi Beta Iota.
OR you can gather a group of women from your area and start your own chapter
Im sure women from my chapter could help you out a bit
