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Originally posted by FuturePhD
I can't even contemplate how you could say you love somebody, enough to marry them, and NOT tell them...At least give them the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to stay in the relationship or not...in my opinion, that's the true test of love. And personally, if it's a week before my wedding, then I KNOW that this is the person that God sent for me to marry, my mate can have HIV, three legs, and no arms, I'll still walk down the aisle, and stand by him, for life.
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I totally agree. I could never stand before God and have someone pledge their love to me with a secret like this standing in between us.
I would tell him and let him make his own decision. And, I would definitely make sure that he gets tested himself. I would probably postpone the wedding because I would be in NO condition to get married myself. I would be experiencing every emotion that has a name and in no shape to make a decent wife for anyone.