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Originally posted by honeychile
Okay, here's where I am:
An older friend of mine has a daughter getting married in a few months. I don't know the daughter well, but I have the utmost respect for her mother. I have NOT rs'd my vp, so that's not in the mix.
I have recently received an invitation to a conference which would give me a HUGE leg up on the second career I'm planning - and it's the same weekend. I would have to let them know tomorrow!
I am completely torn. Both involve going out of town, so that's not a factor. Which should I do?
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You haven't RSVP'd and you are not close to the bride. Many wedding invites are more social obligations that true "we would be so hurt if you are not there!" kinda things. Send your regrets and a nice present and go to the conference. You have the option to gush over pictures later.