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Thanks everyone for the different perspectives. Here is some more info on him...
We're not marriage serious. We're not casual. We kind of fall somewhere in the middle.
Right now, I couldn't see myself dating anybody else. He's wonderful!
We communicate great. He's an intelligent guy. I LOVE talking to him. As far as the plan for the future...haven't really discussed that. I know he wants to get married and have a family one day...but I'm not necessarily sure that he sees himself doing anything else besides bartending. He never talks about other job possibilities. I never ask because I don't know how to not sound....well....rude. I don't want him to think his job isn't good enough. He's a hard worker.
He loves bartending. I'm happy he enjoys his job...but BARTENDING??? FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE??? That thought kind of scares me.
I'm just trying to figure out if not sharing the same values about the importance of a career is a deal-breaker.
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