fifi225,
Firstly, and most importantly, I hope you have as speedy and easy recovery as is possible. Your health and recovery have to be your first priority, and your chapter will recognize this.
Secondly, be sure that you check the Theta Constitution and Bylaws for yourself regarding inactivity, etc. (They are posted online in the Thetas Online section at the
Theta website.)
Unfortunately, sometimes chapter officers and even advisers aren't well-versed in inactivity procedures (because it's a very rare thing for most chapters). You want to take the initiative to make sure it's all handled properly, since it's your membership.
Feel free to PM me. Best of luck!
Jane