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i think you are going in the right direction. tell him you are a little concerned.....that you noticed he has dropped weight and doesn't look well. i had a friend in HS who was gay and he lost about 15-20 lbs in a short amount of time. i asked him about it and he said he thought he looked fat and needed to lose weight. i showed my concern and that i didn't want him to do anything stupid like take lots of diet pills or starve himself just to look good for some guy (somewhat sarcastically, just like you would do for a girlfriend - ie: is he really worth all that?). he didn't get mad and at least he knew that i cared.
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