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Originally posted by TheBest!
My ex and our friends told me that he was really in a tough situation with his bitchy wife and that he was the kind of guy every girl would like to marry.
True. We started talking and I offered myself as a good friend and made very clear I didn't want anything else besides friendship, but he started to take me out, buy me flowers, music and for my birthday like a week ago he took me to this fancy restaurant, gave me a handmade(he made it) jewerly box and inside a three gold necklace. I was wow!
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Um, no. I'm a woman who would prefer not to be married to a guy who takes out other women and buys them flowers and jewelry. I'd venture to guess that MOST women would not like to marry a guy who does that.
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I like him but not 100%
He still lives in the same house with his wife, sleeping in different rooms (friends and ex confirmed that)
He has a 1 year old son (yeah I forgot this guy is 6 years older than me)
He said he is waiting for his broker to end the paperwork to move out to his own place.
This guy can't divorce since they got married in a catholic church (they are supposed to be married till death set them apart)
What do you think? Should I keep going out with him or disappear from his life completely.
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Um, first of all, if he still lives with his wife, RUN. What kind of pansy-ass mofo needs to "wait for his broker to end the paperwork" so he can move out of the house? If he wanted to move out, he would. Period.
He can divorce. The trick is, he won't. Why should he, when he has his wife at home (and no matter what you think or what anybody tells you, you don't know a darn thing about what goes on at their house when nobody is there) and you on the side?
Also, I'd wonder what the point of being all Catholic-married and not divorcing is if he's going to be getting some on the side. He's a wuss and a hypocrite. I don't mean to sound harsh, but the fact that he thinks you're stupid enough to fall for this crap is enough to piss me off -- if I were in your place, I'd be LIVID.