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Originally posted by kddani
i really don't get why people feel the ned to incessantly beg for an update or complain b/c they haven't heard from the PNM. What part of MAYBE IT DIDN'T WORK OUT don't you understand? Maybe they're embarassed, hurt, etc. b/c their rush didn't work out. Maybe your posts begging for an update are making them feel even worse about themselves and their rush. Honestly, if I had to pick, i'd live with the good lucks over the begging for updates.
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The good lucks aren't as bad, as long as the same person isn't wishing them good luck 3 times a day (which I've seen happen). Your good luck wishes don't expire after a few hours. But the begging for an update... THAT is what I have a major problem with, for the exact reason that kddani said.
Say you just went on an interview for your dream job that you thought was in the bag and didn't get it. Would you really want to face 5 voice mails each from all of your friends when you got home saying, "I just know you got it! OMG why aren't you calling me back? I NEED to know!!"??