Thanks for the tips, all. I'll take all you have and more!
One more question for you Californians:
DH has decided that he'd prefer to stay somewhere about 30 minutes outside of Disneyland, between Disneyland and the San Diego airport. It sounds like "someone" told him we could stay just outside of Disneyland but still only have about a 45-60 minute drive to the airport. Of course, I'd rather stay in Anaheim but I don't do the driving
Is there such a place with decent lodging options? If so, where?