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One fall, my chapter had only 5 spots open for COB girls...and 21 girls who came to enough COB events to be eligible for a bid from us! While we were excited that we had a lot of great girls who wanted to become a member of our sisterhood, it was SO hard to let 16 girls down. Needless to say, many of them went through formal rush in the spring and got bids from us then--one of whom is my grandlittle!
Please don't hold it against this chapter--for all you know you could've been the 'next one' to receive a bid if they had been able to. As many have said before me, it may not have been you personally...sorority life can be a numbers game unfortunately.
If you've made it this far with them, they obviously DO like you, or you would've been dropped early on like a hotcake. Please give them a chance.
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