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reading through your thread
I understand your disappointment and hestitant in going to to these other parties.
2 things that I really want you to think about.....
1) Informal and Formal recruitment are two different animals, as you well know. Most chapters when doing Informal recruitment only have a certain numbers of spots to fill, you could have been #5, when they only had 4 spots open. Look at this way, you might be on the top of their list.
2) Although looking at the current chapter to see if you fit in with them is a good thing. Look at the girls that are in the party with you. These ladies could be your pledge sisters, can you can see youself being sisters with these ladies?
Take some time, see which houses you get invited back with pref......really listen to the ceremony and see if those values are talking to you.
Talk with your Gamma Chis or an impartical party to talk out your thoughts....you may come back with some better insights that had not occured to you before.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
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