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It gets really tricky when your biological sister is a PNM. I remember getting a slap on the wrist because I was talking to my sister before Rush. The other sororities had a problem with it and my chapter thought it looked bad. Now come on - do you really think a 5 minute conversation in the cafe is going to pursuade her to join/not join my sorority. And I think it looks even worse - not to mention down right stupid - to ignore your sister when she's brand new to a school. I was a senior that year so she had already heard all about it for the 3 years prior.
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This same thing happened to me! The last place on earth my sister wanted to be was left at college by my parents (she was an "it" thing in HS apparently!). It took 2 hours for her to stop crying.....amazingly she did in my room in the arms of a another sister and I. Yes, broken rules, but I was NOT about to leave my crying sister by herself....my parents would have killed me if I had!!! Anyway, it was still days before recruitment and as the post above said....she had already been listening to me for 2 years!